She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture.
Let her go right now then. I love him more than life, He says the hours will get better after residency I really hope so. Being married to a doctor is a difficult thing to balance.
If it is a good honest relationship with two well-meaning people, you need to put work into it.